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Last weekend was probably one of the best I’ve ever had: with four friends I embarked on a tiring but nature-filled trip to Ilocos, where we frolicked under the sun (on the day state weather forecasters tagged as the hottest of the year, no less), trekked a little bit to get to an amazing waterfall, and laid on the sand at night to gaze at the stars and listen to music.
My weekend, in pictures (photos courtesy of Sophia, Aie, Seph, Mark).
We left 9 p.m. Friday, rode the van for nearly 12 hours, and had breakfast here at Grandpa's.
We went to Baluarte, a mini-zoo, where we saw these llamas. I had a hippie moment: I kept on telling the driver not to hit the pony that was pulling our carriage (I ended up hating myself for riding it). Was resolved afterwards that animals should be free to roam the earth. Freeeee!
I couldn't stop myself from singing The Righteous Brothers' "Unchained Melody" when we stopped by the pottery barn.
We stopped by other places: a museum, a Church, a lighthouse, a rock formation, beaches, waterfalls, windmills…
On the stairs of the Marcoses' former resthouse, the size and location of which nearly drove me insane. There is no justice in this world.
Look at how clear the water is!
First night dinner!
- Second night dinner!
This is what I look like when I am thinking about how much I hate the heat of the sun.
- I can’t believe I managed to smile here. I was already itching to kill someone, anyone, because of the damn heat.
The five of us at the beach :p
pride
The FX driver was fuming.
“Sarap bugbugin ni Hatton! Pumusta-pusta pa naman ako sa hinayupak na yun,” he practically shouted to his captive audience (us poor passengers).
“Puta, second round natulog na agad,” he continued. “Sana ipinang-sabong ko na lang, tangina.”
I had the asshole smile on my face as I muttered under my breath, “buti nga.” Serves you right for betting on the Brit, I thought. I had just seen the live telecast of the Manny Pacquiao-Ricky Hatton fight, and I was still reeling from the excitement of watching a big game with a bunch of real boxing fans, mostly male and middle-aged, some of them flushed after downing a few bottles of beer to psych themselves up for the match.
I’m no boxing aficionado, so I’m not even going to try and rave about how great Pacquiao’s left hook was. But I’ll give you this: I am so going to watch the next Pacquiao fight 
day tripper
Last Wednesday I skipped work so the entire family can go to Cavite for my grandma’s birthday. As I sat inside the car, I realized that the same thing happens every family trip to Cavite. To illustrate:
1. Dad would drive. Horrendous music from some new Pinoy band plays on the radio, and I would complain. Dad concurs, and switches the station to good old RJ, which plays The Beatles, like, every two songs.
2. We listen in peace, with me asking every now and then what song is playing. I become somewhat convinced that I’m either a Californian hippie or a British groupie from the 70s trapped in the body of a 21-year-old living in the 21st century.
3. While all this is going on my mother would go into full backseat driving mode. You know what backseat driving is? It’s when you’re not driving but you keep on yakking about how the one behind the wheel should drive: “go slow,” “wait there’s the red light,” “don’t go too near that bus.” I love my mother, but this drives me crazy. If there’s something I want more than anything else in the world, it’s not world peace, but an end to backseat driving.
4. I gaze out the window and “ponder on life” to shut out the backseat driving comments.
5. I sleep.
6. My sisters wake me up to announce that we have arrived. I groggily get out of the car, then throw myself on my grandma’s couch to sleep some more.
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My boyfriend isn’t too crazy about The Beatles–he’s more into The Doors, he says–but we find The Beatles’ “Something” special.
Here’s the actual video, where John Lennon and Yoko Ono look like they came from Transylvania:
And the “Across the Universe” version, which I adore for its simplicity and Jim Sturgess’ smooth, dreamy voice.
conqueror, not
Thanks to Paul, I got wind of this website that will allow you to keep track of the places in the Philippines that you’ve visited.
My grade? D for Disgusting.
My Lakbayan grade is D!
How much of the Philippines have you visited? Find out at Lakbayan! Created by Eugene Villar.
Man, I need to travel more. I’ve never been to any place in Visayas and Mindanao. Ugh.
I only got to go outside Luzon in grade school and high school, when my family and I spent about three summers in Malaysia where my dad used to work, and a few days in Singapore.
What I got out of those travels except for hundreds of pictures that show me as a fat and grumpy teenager:
- I learned a little Bahasa (Malaysian languange) from hotels and airports. Like, “pintu” is “door,” and “gula” is “sugar.” “Selamat” means “welcome.” I think.
- I fell in love with F.R.I.E.N.D.S., the TV show. To this day, I watch at least five episodes every weekend on DVD.
- I wrote (childish) fiction. But I have no idea where the notebooks I wrote them in are now.
Looking back, I wish I had been more open-minded and adventurous. I mean, I didn’t even go into the snake house at one of the zoos we visited, I preferred to stay inside malls and hotels, and I hardly looked out the window while riding the cable car to Sentosa in Singapore because I was too busy eating pizza. No wonder I got so fat.
who’s your daddy?
Damn I wish I was two years old.
According to reports, Brad and Angelina may adopt a new baby–from the Philippines!
The duo, who both personify hotness, reportedly flew here last week to look around for the latest addition to their multi-racial family. A spokesperson for the couple, however, reportedly refused to comment.
One very, very lucky Filipino kid might join the next family portrait.
(Click here or the picture for Chuvaness’ post showing more Jolie-Pitt family pictures)
offbeat
I would like to be Zooey Deschanel kthnxbye.
No, seriously. I’ve always loved She & Him, particularly their playful “Why Do You Let Me Stay Here,” but I only saw the video today.
I love how badly-made it is. Zooey didn’t even attempt to lip-synch well; it’s like the producers just dressed her up in different outfits and told her to do her thing, which is basically to look effortlessly cute. M. Ward, meanwhile, appeared like he was given specific instructions to look like he doesn’t give a damn about what’s happening around him. I love his deadpan expression!
Unfortunately, unlike Zooey, I can’t play any musical instrument. Not for lack of trying, though. To expound:
- When I was about six, a friend of my uncle volunteered to teach me how to play the piano. I managed to learn “Oh Holy Night” and a few other Christmas songs, and I was made to believe that I was musically gifted. Then one day he just disappeared. Whenever I think of him, Jose Mari Chan’s face comes to mind.
- When I was seven or eight my parents got me professional piano lessons. But my teacher didn’t have the soothing voice of my uncle’s friend, so I refused to cooperate. The relationship ended on a bad note, with her saying that I have very stiff hands. I hated her all the more for it.
- Elementary was all about imitating the Spice Girls with my four other friends. High school was about winning in singing competitions, so I never considered trying to learn to play any instrument during these periods, which we shall collectively call as my “pop phase.”
- When I reached college I begged my dad to buy me a guitar. He bought an acoustic guitar for P4,000, but I gave up on it after a few months. The only songs I learned to play–and I use the phrase “learned to play” very, very loosely–were Nirvana’s “About a Girl” and “Come as You Are,” and Pearl Jam’s “Last Kiss.”
5. Last year I used to fool around with the drums and guitars of a friend who’s in two bands, the key word here being “fool.” I would freeze whenever he or his equally musically-inclined brother entered the room.
not the best
How do I describe this night? Let’s just say there was a lot of glaring, a little crying, and–in fairness–zero shouting. It was mostly my fault, so I offered ice cream and chocolates and they did not fail me. I thank you, sugar deities.
Like I said in my previous blog entry, there’s a lot of things I need to sort out within myself, so probably for the first time in my life I’m actually going to use the Holy Week to reflect. See, Holy Weeks for me usually mean bumming in general and DVD marathons in particular, but this time I’m determined to camp out on the front porch (translation: sit on the rocking chair there), stare out into space, and think. I’m not sure what good that will do me since I’m impulsive and spontaneous, but hey, at least I tried.
I would’ve wanted to go to the beach–to spread a blanket over the sand at night and gaze at the stars, but such things are next to impossible when you’re in the media. Hence, my dreams of week-long beach-going have been reduced to plans of after-work rocking-chair-sitting. I constantly try not to pity myself.
clouded
I’ve been feeling somewhat melancholic lately, partly due to self-created dilemmas (“It’s you against you,” as one very good friend pointed out) and partly due to health problems besetting some people important to me.
Someone whom I love very, very dearly might be dying. I don’t want to put in specifics because the situation has not been made known to some people who might stumble upon this blog, but suffice it to say that there’s not much we can do anymore except hope for a miracle.
And then a few hours ago I learned that one of my best friends is confined in a hospital, where the friend is set to undergo a series of examinations. I’m itching to go there and visit, but I can’t as of the moment, so right now I’m just hoping my friend wouldn’t have to stay there all throughout Holy Week.
Right now my mind is wrapped around the same thought that kept on repeating itself in my head during my grandfather’s wake nearly two months ago–that some people, unfortunately, get what they don’t deserve.
I’m aware of how cynical this sounds, but sometimes it just doesn’t pay to be good. That doesn’t mean, of course, that I’ll go around screwing everyone’s lives– I’m just more aware now that nobody’s spared from misfortune, no matter how much you tried to avoid being a bitch or an asshole.
genius
I now have a new goal in life aside from going on tour with The Strokes–to collect all T.C. Boyle books.
So far I have three: “Drop City,” “The Inner Circle,” and the recently-purchased “Talk Talk.” The latest two are in the shot of the newest acquisitions below:
I found another T.C. Boyle book in Powerbooks, his first novel “Water Music,” but I was not able to purchase it because the thing costs more than P600 and I’m pretty much broke because our pay got delayed.
I know, right.
Moving on to happier news–Jack White has a new band! Now he’s the drummer. Gah, this man’s musical genius kills me. I am so going to listen to this one even though the band’s name, the Dead Weather, sounds a little too emo for my taste.
almost blissful
(I almost began this entry with the dateline “MANILA, Philippines.” Hahaha. Proof of how I’ve been so attuned to work lately, inspired by The Beloved Mentor who left recently.)
Can I just say how much I love this weekend? Mamsi cooked tuna penne using real tomatoes, not packaged tomato sauce, and I love it. My sister baked chocoloate chip muffins. Papsi is well, Papsi, and my youngest sister Jaz is getting funnier everyday. Also, I slept ’til 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, then had two afternoon naps today (Sunday).
But what really lifted my spirits is that I finally got to watch two movies I’ve been itching to see for months: “Nick and Norah’s Infinite Playlist,” and “Across the Universe.”
“Nick and Norah” was cute, in an indie-movie-for-cool-teens kind of way. Like “Juno,” except “Juno” was better-written. Still, there were a lot of things I appreciated in this movie, including but not limited to:
1. The uber-supportive gay members of Nick’s band.
2. The fact that Nick and Norah met at a gig. It wasn’t exactly how the boyfriend and I met, but still.
3. The reference to Electric Lady Studios (Norah’s dad supposedly owns it).
As for “Across the Universe,” the opening scene with Jim Sturgess singing a few lines from The Beatles’ “Girl” alone got me hooked.
There’s still a lot of room for character development, and I think the characters sang so much that necessary dialogue was compromised, but it’s hard to complain when The Beatles songs were covered so beautifully.
I didn’t know Evan Rachel Wood–you might know her as Marilyn Manson’s ex who starred in the music video “Heart-Shaped Glasses”–had such a beautiful voice.
Even non-fans of The Beatles will be able to appreciate the good music. I downloaded the soundtrack immediately after seeing the movie.
One of my favorite scenes is Joe Cocker singing “Come Together.”
There were also a lot of references to the hippie era, among them The Merry Pranksters with Bono as a sort of Ken Kesey. They rode in a bus with psychedelic design; the scenes themselves were psychedelic. Bono’s last line? “You’re either on the bus or off the bus.” Love it.
